Can the Universe Manifest that Relationship for You?
Recently I was reading an article in my email
that I was constantly saying, “Boy, she’s got that one right.”
“This lady really understands.”“Oh, that’s why I
was able to manifest such and such.”The article
was about manifesting and it was discussing the process of using
lists.If you’re an analytical person like me, you
love lists. I create lists to do things like: running
errands (I joke about being blond but I do get distracted easily),
sending birthday cards sent out, grocery lists, birthday and holiday
gift ideas (so that when I am shopping these things are there
in the back of my mind when an item appears on a display).
Let’s say you want to create a relationship
that really works for a change.I pick this subject
because it is one that I hear so very often from friends, on TV,
radio, and internet blogs, and it worked for me.I
guess this is because we all have that need to feel loved and
appreciated.In the email article, they were saying
to create a list of the things in the current situation you do
not like.Okay, if you are into manifesting at all,
you are saying, “That’s off base because you should not focus
on what you do not want.”Stay with me for a minute
here.We just made a list of what we don’t want,
now let’s draw a line straight down the page and on the other
column we are now going to look at the opposite of what we wrote
in the first column.What you place in the second
column are all the things you DO want.Here’s an
example.Column1:He is insensitive.Column2:He makes me feel cared for and my
needs are important to him.Got the idea?I
used this process quite by chance in the recent past.I
was in a relationship that had just ended and I was more than
devastated.I was hurt and unsure of how to deal
with it.I started a list of what I did not like
about this person.The list grew and grew.Then I listed the things I did like.When
I was done, I looked at the list and wondered why I had ever been
in the relationship to begin with.That helped a
lot.I’m not sure where it came from but I then started
a list that I titled “My perfectMan.”I basically took all the qualities I did not like about
the previous relationship and turned them around to what I thought
was more suitable for me.When I was done with my
list making, I put them away (I certainly did not want anyone
to read them for fear that they would realize just how messed
up I was over the situation.Image was important
to me.)I went on my merry way (hardly considering
I was devastated) and started to get back into life.I
took classes, dated a few men, went to shows and trips with girlfriends,
parties, etc.I was having the time of my when the
most unusual man appeared.We were an instant hit
together!It was not until perhaps 3 months later
when we were having a conversation and I mentioned the list I
wrote.I got the list out and to my surprise, he
was EVERYTHING I had listed that I was looking for (with the exception
that he still smoked cigarettes).I was floored!
So let’s look at how the Universe
got involved here.I made a list of what I wanted
and I put it away.I only put it away because I was
afraid someone else would see it; but “out of sight, out of mind.”From the perspective of the Universe, I put the request
out there of what I wanted and I let go of it and got back into
life.Remember the saying, “Let go and let God.”
This is exactly what you are doing.You
put the request out there and let go of it.Caution:If we stay attached to a situation (still unhappy about
this, or that, or him or her, etc.), we just attract more of that
situation into our lives.I became focused on enjoying
life again whether I had a relationship or not.The
keyword here is detachment (I can’t say it enough….Let go and
let God).That is probably the toughest thing in
the world -- to try to be detached from something that is causing
you discomfort.This is where the list is critical
and make sure you put more concentration into the positive side
of what you want.Give the Universe an opportunity
to assist in creating the relationship others only dream of.
Let’s create lives abundant with
love and happiness.
